When It Hits Different

Hi friend!

Wow! Yeah, I’ve been on a pause for what it feels like, a long time. Since the end of May I’ve been traveling and I have been engaging in a lot of soul work. A lot of soul searching and feeling. No regrets! Absolutely, none.

Upon my last adventure to the “Sowers Summit” in New York with some friends, then off to spa day in Kohler, Wisconsin with two other friends, I have returned and settled. Somewhat— and now it’s time to launch out into my “new life.” I know that for my new life, it will require me to show up in my most emptied self. An alignment is taking shape and I no longer need to concern myself with the excess amount of weight I’ve carried for years.

I am a story teller. I can articulate my heart, mind and soul in a manner that can move one into a space of wonder. I can conjure up thoughts and allow the Holy Spirit to move me from thoughts to words, to actions, to habits, to behaviors. This is a super power.

But when the lows are low, I am hard pressed to process the rhythms of my heart and so therein lies the thorn on my side.

When the lows are low, I can’t articulate my words. My mind is far ahead the rest of me and my soul aches for home. The only thing left is a messy heart, a messy me. This is where everything hits different. Right here.

I define this as the liminal space/place. The 18 inches between your head and your heart.

“The concept of liminal space beckons us to embrace ambiguity and transformation. Liminality refers to that odd space where we find ourselves neither here nor there, paralyzed between what was and what will be. It is a psychological and theoretical space where boundaries blur, and possibilities arise.

It’s characteristics are…

Ambiguity: Where the usual rules and norms no longer apply, leaving us in a state of uncertainty.

Transformation: The birthing place for personal growth and change, a place where we shed old identities and embrace new ones.

Disorientation: Liminality challenges our sense of direction and belonging, momentarily leaving us insecure and disoriented.”

Now, here are a few ways we can navigate through embracing liminal space I also got off the internet:

1. Letting Go: Embrace the discomfort of uncertainty and surrender to the process of transformation. Letting go of the need for control can lead to profound insights and personal growth.

2. Exploration: Liminal spaces invite exploration and self-discovery. Embrace the journey and remain open to new possibilities.

3. Creativity: Liminality often sparks creativity and innovation. Allow yourself to experiment and think outside the box.

4. Acceptance: Instead of rushing to escape liminal moments, practice acceptance and patience. Embrace the idea that transformation takes time.

Deep.

After spending time researching liminality, the only words I have left to leave you from my liminal space is a prayer written by a stranger to a very same Savior. “Jesus, thank You for seeing me fully and loving me unconditionally. It’s humbling to know You have chosen me to be in a relationship with You and to participate in Your Kingdom work. Help me to silence any lies and listen only to Your calling. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.” ~Meghan Mellinger

When life hits different, know this truth: We are chosen. That’s it, friend. We are His. No one on this earth can take our value because He chose us. How do we walk in this truth is the real question.

“Today release yourself from anything that may be causing you pain, even if you're scared to let go. Accept. Heal. Release. Get your peace back!” ~Trent Shelton

Happy August 1st, friends. May our liminal places lead us all back to Center, back home.

Until next time,

-Mo